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Alivyana Solarus's avatar

THESE wrriten words that stir the intersection between heart & mind with such gentle vigor...like the depth of the warmwst embrace you've felt in some time! So moving that the saltiness of tears can't help but fall from the window of our souls. My goodness...what gratitude have I for the wonder of the brilliant bodies... that house whatever vibrant stardust... is capable of creating the luminous beings we are...that seemingly collectively intersects all nature...and the brilliant bodies that clothe them. ♾️❤️‍🔥🙏

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Lee Penman's avatar

Love this:)

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Cierra's avatar

What a gorgeous reminder. Thank you, Avani, for speaking life into death and sharing such a beautiful lesson from it.

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Avani Patel's avatar

“Speaking life into death” wow - thank you for that, Cierra!

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Cierra's avatar

Oh absolutely! This was a such a touching recount of a tender memory!

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Natalie Joanne's avatar

Hugging people like you mean it makes all the difference. Why hug at all if not with some heart? 🤍

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Avani Patel's avatar

Agree! Not here for the limp hugs 😉

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Mohika Mudgal's avatar

i have enjoyed reading every word of this essay. so beautiful so lyrical. thank you!

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Avani Patel's avatar

Thank you Mohika ♥️

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Samantha Lazo's avatar

Ugh, this story is a gift. “Thank you for teaching me, and reminding me, <who crossed out> how to be.” Beautiful and grounding.

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Avani Patel's avatar

Thank you, Samantha!

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Yanique Harding's avatar

Beautiful reminder 💛

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Avani Patel's avatar

Thank you, Yanique!

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Zariel G's avatar

that was beautiful! i have an titi like asha and when she passed my whole world changed but when visits me in a dream it’s like her hug to me and i appreciate everyone i get. thank you for sharing !!

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Avani Patel's avatar

Love the idea that the dream visit is like a hug, too 🥰

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Johnny Nguyen's avatar

Thanks for sharing! How nice it must be to get visits from a loved one like that. My wife is from India so I actually understand what you mean with beta! I read somewhere how when hugging a kid, it's the adult that breaks the hold. So instead, just keep hugging until the kid is ready to let go.

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Avani Patel's avatar

I hadn’t heard that before! Thank you for sharing Johnny - I’m going to practice that with my nieces ♥️

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Kelly's avatar

Gorgeous

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magnolia's avatar

Thank you for sharing ♡

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Avani Patel's avatar

Thank you for reading! 🙏🏽

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Donné's avatar

My goodness. My soul felt every word. Now to get my eyes to stop leaking! Avani, always keep writing. You have a real gift! Thank you for being fearless and sharing this about your Auntie.

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Avani Patel's avatar

Donné, thank you for these generous words ♥️ So glad to hear you felt this in your soul

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Raquel M. Jones's avatar

I could see it all. Very beautiful 💔❤️

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Peter Reece's avatar

Beautiful

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Kayla Cortes's avatar

Beautiful share Avani! Thank you for sharing Alex 🙏🏼

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Mary Upton's avatar

Truly gorgeous little piece. Count your blessings. Remember the love shown to you and that you show others is a privilege that may not always be here tomorrow.

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