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Alex, I admire your attitude and am so sorry this happened to you. I cannot comprehend or understand the mindset of someone who does this!! Her sweatshirts should read, STEALING BY EXAMPLE!

Bless you, heal her is my prayer along with give me your compassionate heart.

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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Alex Elle

I wish that I could articulate how deeply I needed this sentiment.

I had been blindsided by a friend whom portrayed me in a light that didn’t align with who I am & even she said she said it out of insecurities & envy.

Trying to find compassion the last week has been daunting. From listening to a grief meditation series to affirmations reminding me who I am, it’s been hard not to lean into the adjectives she used to describe me.

However, after reading this, it reminded me how wholesome compassion is & can be.

Thank you

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Feb 8, 2023·edited Feb 9, 2023Liked by Alex Elle

This is a powerful example of not only compassion and curiosity as healing practices, but also an ABUNDANCE mindset. When I read this, underneath it all I hear, "You can steal what I create, but you cannot duplicate or steal the SOURCE of my creations! I GOT PLENTY!" Keep shining Sis! Thank you for this.

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“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness.” Thanks for sharing your experience, Alex and sorry this happened to you. It is disheartening when someone steals your work - I’ve been there too and it’s not okay. Keep shining!

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Thank you for sharing your process. That’s important for my evolving mind as well. Truly living your message!

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Feb 7, 2023Liked by Alex Elle

That’s so awful! That person MUST see it’s a blatant THEFT! Your calm acceptance is admirable BUT I hope it didn’t stop a cease and desist letter for a formal head-slap to this woman. It disgusts me!

I have many issues and would often be tempted to buy a slogan tee shirt etc. I hate the thought I could potentially purchase from some1 who wasn’t the actual author.....with the rights. I ask you to consider also those like me who would HATE to be ( even inadvertently) the owner of stolen work. I am not so accepting and would feel really awful if tricked.

S Cl

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Feb 7, 2023Liked by Alex Elle

Alex, I'm sorry that happened to you. I just don't understand why folks feel it's okay to steal someone's work. It's not okay!

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I will add these wisdom words to my mirror of inmortal quotes “...If I let folks whose actions are ill-intentioned distract me from my work and creativity, I will find myself stuck, misaligned, and unfulfilled....” It is so true! This is a great example of healing by example.

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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Alex Elle

I’m sorry that happened. That would make me feel terrible. Your sweatshirt got to my house today and I know it sounds ridiculous, but I cried. It is beautiful and I felt so much love for you, the creator. You are a balm to this world and I am so grateful you share with us 🙏🏻

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Respect for your courage and attitude, best way to lead by example !

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"when you're a leader and truth teller, there's no amount of imitation that can replace your authenticity. "

Yes. Yes. Yes and also yes.

I am so deeply sorry that you experienced this (and have before and will again). It's an icky feeling, every time.

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I’m learning so much through your exploration. It’s a helpful reminder that it’s not where i begin, but where I end up with things like this.

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Now this is true maturity because that lady really had the audacity, nerve and gall. I know for sure that my first reaction would’ve been one of anger, but this definitely put things into perspective. I’m so sorry this happened to you Alex, but I admire how you approached it.

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It is what it is... something that took me a while to get back to and be ok with after years of therapy. But now it’s like a mantra - I try not to let certain thing upset me anymore because I know I can’t change them. I can only change my reaction to them.

I’m sorry that someone copied your creation and sold it as their own. That sucks big time!

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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. Keep shining!!!

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Feb 8, 2023Liked by Alex Elle

Todays live was really good on IG

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