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Ken's avatar

This is the journey I am currently on, accepting people as they are and not trying to make things the way I feel they should be. I see that me constantly trying to control the way others show up in my life has continually caused me pain. My fear of rejection and abandonment are the underlying issues I am working to resolve. I can’t make people change, I can’t make people stay and I can’t make people love me. But I can show up for me 💜

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Maria Lata's avatar

Thank you for this one! When I was younger, I would take someone's unwillingness to change as a personal hit, thinking there was something in me that wasn't enough. Learning that we can't change others has made life much more peaceful 💛

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